When we get into the new environment, we may make friends with someone and learn something from them. I also made friends with girls and had good time with them.
However I noticed that when I said something funny, they reacted very differently from the other friends from junior high school and high school. I thought I could come closer to them if I made fun of myself, but I couldn't. One day I realized obvious thing that everyone has their way of thinking and feeling thus it's no wonder my friend's reaction was so different from my expectation.
In this way, my friends often tell me something obvious and forgettable.
Also I encourage myself to study though I'm depressed, because my girls make effort.
So my community I have benefit from is the community with my friends.
I also think friends are very precious to me because they help, encourage and advise me.
ReplyDeleteThe benefit of joining some community is that we can communicate with many people who have different opinion or perspective, so it enables us to broaden our outlook.
ReplyDeleteI also think that it is one of the benefits that we are exposed to various way of thinking because different people think differently. I want to see and talk with as many people as I can and broaden my perspective.
ReplyDeleteRecently, I made a new friend. However, soon after we made friends, he made a girlfriend. Therefore, we cannot meet as often as before. I feel as if my friend was stolen by a girl.
ReplyDeleteFriends are the most important factor in my life, I think. My friends help me when I am depressed.
ReplyDeleteI wonder why you have thought that your friends react as you expected and how you noticed the difference of reacting to your funny remarks. It is really interesting for me.
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